
Severe restriction of abortion does not reduce abortion rates, but instead it just affects the safety of the procedure. JOSEPH MWALE writes in The Nation Newspaper
Just four months after delivering her third child, Margaret Kawala, 42, discovered she was three months pregnant.
She felt dejected. She discussed the issue with her husband and opted for safe abortion at a nearby hospital. However, they were denied the service based on law. In Malawi, abortion is illegal.
Kawala had no option, but to seek unsafe abortion from a herbalist. She was given a concoction. The same day, on January 3 2016, she had an abortion that appeared to be successful.
But this is what cost Kawala her womb and later her marriage. Her husband of 17 years abandoned her for another woman because she could no longer have children.
“It was an agreed decision with my husband,” explains Kawala who comes from Kamwana Village in Traditional Authority Dzoole, Dowa.
“I felt like a grinder was in my womb, trying to cut every piece. I started bleeding heavily, and later, I collapsed and was taken to a private hospital where doctors said I had lost a lot of blood and my womb was damaged.”
Her womb was eventually removed.
“It was hard to believe that I would never give birth again,” she recalls.
She says after the incident, the husband, Ziutse Mthebe, started changing colours, saying she wanted to marry another woman to give him children.
In an interview Mthebe said: “We didn’t really agree to the abortion decision,” he claims. “The complications after the abortion are what made me to remarry. It was just a misunderstanding.”
Kawala says she resigned to fate and allowed the husband to marry another wife, but this was the beginning of trouble. He told her to leave his home, but she insisted on staying. Later, Mthebe left the place.
Since then, Kawala looks after the three children alone. She tried to engage marriage counselors and chiefs, but it did not work. Her elder daughter is now married with two children.
In a phone interview from Zambia, Mthebe only said: “I am ready to meet her and see my children. She is still my wife.”