The announcement by the Malawi government to initiate a public inquiry on homosexuality laws has been received with mixed reactions. BRIAN LIGOMEKA writes
Despite the incident happening some five years ago, 30 year-old Makana still remembers vividly all the insults family members hurled at him upon disclosing that he was sexually attracted to fellow men.
To his chagrin, leading the onslaught of those castigating him was his own father who was a church elder of a Pentecostal denomination.
Barbarian, nincompoop, imbecile, Satanist, criminal and demon were some derogatory words used to chastise him soon after the disclosure.
As the insults rained upon him, their church pastor arrived on the scene.
“Pastor, sorry for disturbing you through my phone call,” his father told the cleric.
He added: “My son is possessed and I would like you to cast out the demons of homosexuality that have chained him.”
Instead of just praying for him, the pastor inquired what happened that Makana should embrace what he called “unnatural, contagious, Un-African and Satanic western import.”
“I was just born like that,” Makana told the pastor.
“Oh, yes, your father is right. You are indeed possessed. It is actually the demon who is speaking that, and not you,” the pastor retorted.
The pastor spent almost an hour praying for Makana who inwardly regretted the decision he made to reveal about his sexual orientation to family members.
“I think I made a mistake to reveal that I was gay to my homophobic family members …. Just imagine, I ended up being scorned, ridiculed and teased instead of being supported,” he said.
Makana’s miseries did not end with the insults. The persecution continued.
“After my graduation, I managed to secure a job with a financial institution. While I was on probation, a family member emailed the company I was working for, disclosing that I was a transgender citizen. The company never offered me permanent employment after my probation,” he said.
Following that experience, Makana decided to venture into entrepreneurship.
Up to this day, he fails to understand why Malawians refuse to embrace the concept of diversity.
“As human beings we are born different. A family can have a child who grows up as a drunk or a complete dipsomaniac while another child from the same family can grow up as a teetotaler. In the same way some people are born as straight and others are born with a different sexual orientation,” he said.
According to Makana, while there are many Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Intersex (LGBTI) citizens in Malawi, most of them do not come in the open for the fear of discrimination and stigmatization.